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August 2020

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Silver Linings…

First off, I am learning and researching all I can during this pandemic and have really gotten the education of a lifetime….in more ways than one.

Dating – so who knew in a pandemic it would be a feast or a famine? No joke. I am researching the dating world ..not fully committing myself to the road quite yet but have been doing my homework and venturing out minimally…..

Okay..so the dating world now is so different than 5 years ago – now you swipe and if you swipe wrong you can shake your phone and undo the bad swipe! I mean – who knew? Also, dating is now video chats! Saves time and you can bolt sooner or choose to invest!! Win – Win!

Here is my research so far….

First, dog 🐕 fishing – it is when someone has borrowed a dog for their profile. No joke. This is a thing and encountered two profiles when I asked about the dog – “oh its my friends or people look more attractive with dogs” – yes this is true but I don’t envision men doing this.

Second, Jekylling – it is when someone is sweet and kind and on a dime changes to mean and not flexible – aggressive and anger comments – almost inflammatory when a disagreement or difference of opinions takes place – happens a lot with texting.

Third, Ghosting – let me say – I had my first experience of ghosting! It was so surreal quite honestly. I liked the guy – had two dates and then crickets -at first I was taken back..then actually was like – does he have COVID? So..back in 1998, I had a guy supposed to meet me for studying Calculus III exam and he did not show. I did not get a call or text and come to find out – on the way to my house – he was in a motorcycle accident on 675 and nearly died – critical care for 3 days…anyway, I first jumped to “what a jerk” but that reality check woke me up – since then always tried to give the benefit of the doubt since that experience- So now at 40 – how old are you to ghost? And you really aren’t that busy….anyway, I did hear back after 4 days…but what can you really want with someone who’s ghosting you? You cannot educate those who ghost – if they don’t care enough to be honest – you need to move on and there will always be people perpetuating this stereotype of non-consideration- bye felicia 👋

Fourth, Glam-Boozled – you spent your time showering, getting your hair done, nails are checked and he cancels a the 11th hour and you have put in the effort to go out…so does he have a real excuse or not?

Fifth, Dial- Toning – you give out your number – person texts and you do not respond. Don’t be that person. Just be honest.

Sixth, the Texting Machine – you and he text all the time and talk but no game. Recognize this player as a player and enjoy the context but know “he probably is not that into you” – most likely compliments, supports, and listens – rarely talks of the future

Seventh, Kanye -ing. This is the person who is larger than life. Has the ability to make you king or queen and drops you for the craziest things. This person may not have a filter but is a rollercoaster – good and bad.

Eighth, Ex Life – this is the one who returned during quarantine because they know you and don’t want to be alone. Not long lasting – just here for circumstance

Ninth, Quantini – you would not be together under any other situation. You were just the best option right now. The criteria they normally have has been thrown out.

The silver linings are plentiful….and here are my takeaways…

1. It’s my job to be myself. The right people will gravitate. It’s not my job to be likeable.

2. I have enjoyed quarantine as much as possible – quite honestly – (outside of missing travel) it is has been a glorious 6 months – I enjoy being home, love working from home, multi- task like a queen and have reduced the clutter in my daily life.

3. I get asked …don’t you wish you were married with kids – to be honest, don’t you wish you were single and could make a mess, not do homework, eat ice cream, drive around, and do you 24/7? Shopping with me at the grocery or even for shoes can be kid like – I do me and if I only want to eat vegetables for a week or want chicken every night…that’s how I roll…

4. To answer the question above, I do want to find someone and spend my life with someone who makes me better and challenges me and is not competing with me – I know a lot of people who have settled and are miserable – I have been there, done that, and got the t-shirt… It will happen when it’s supposed to

5. I trust that God has my back. Sometimes the best things in life are unanswered prayers.

6. Prioritize you: It has been great being apart of 3 articles this year:

Feedpost Beauty Top 150 Influencer

Entrepreneur Magazine – 10 Entrepreneurs Who Shattered the Glass Ceiling

USA Today – Top 9 Influencer – see below.

7. Focus on the things you can control – let the other things go. You will end up exactly where you need to be, not necessarily where you want to be.

8. After the rain, there will be a rainbow.



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Nordstrom Anniversary Sale: Best Sale Items & Lookalike Dupes – Back to School Savings Starts Here With @trendyheidi and Trendy With A Passport

The Nordstrom Boot at $99

The Nordstrom Dupe at $24

The Nordstrom Ugg at $45

The Nordstrom Dupe – several colors $15

The Free People Mock Turtleneck

The Nordstrom Dupe

The Nordstrom Bootie $99

The Nordstrom Bootie Dupe

The Gucci Bag at $1100

The Gucci Dupe

Nordstrom Rails Top

Nordstrom Dupe

Nordstrom Pencil Skirt

Nordstrom Pencil Skirt Dupe

Nordstrom Sweater $59

Nordstrom Dupe Sweater $28

Nordstrom Sweater $39

Nordstrom Dupe $25

Nordstrom Bootie $89

Nordstrom Boot Dupe

Nordstrom Boot $109

Nordstrom Boot $249

Nordstrom Boot Dupe $24

Steve Madden $69

Steve Madden Dupe $14

Steve Madden $39

Steve Madden Dupe $14

Nordstrom Blanket $50

Nordstrom Dupe Blanket $23

Nordstrom Jacket $31

Nordstrom Boot $208

Nordstrom Dupe Boot $19

Nordstrom Henley $68

Nordstrom Henley Dupe $12

Madewell Sweater $69

Nordstrom Dupe Sweater $14

Nordstrom $169

Doc Martens Dupe $19

Nordstrom Shoe $49

Nordstrom Dupe $29

Nordstrom $169

Nordstrom Dupe $38

Nordstrom Blanket $149

Nordstrom Dupe $29

Nordstrom Viking Pots & Pans $349

Nordstrom Dupe $39

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Spanx $64

Nordstrom Dupe $26

Nordstrom Barefoot Dreams Dupe $25

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Nordstrom Dupe $23

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Nordstrom Fleece

Nordstrom Dupe

Nordstrom $69

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Nordstrom $134

Nordstrom Dupe $24

Nordstrom Mini Skirt $125

Nordstrom Dupe $25

Nordstrom Coat

Nordstrom Dupe $20 or https://rstyle.me/cz-n/ef8p2pcmec7

Nordstrom Jacket

Nordstrom Dupe $27

Nordstrom Coat

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Nordstrom $99

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Why Staging Your House Before Selling Is Critical

Staging sets the scene for your home. This allows a buyer to have an emotional connection to the space you have. Staging your space is done in layers.

Base: Primary Item

  The most necessary items needed for the purpose of the room.  For example a bed, a desk, a table and chairs

Layer 1:  Secondary items that contribute to the function of the space

  Side tables, lighting, occasional seating

Layer 2:  Accent Pieces

  Rugs, Artwork.  These items accent the “style” or bridge differing styles with color and texture

Layer 3:  “Icing” Pieces

  These are comfort pieces and add to the luxury of the space.  They beckon the viewer to feel compelled to interact within the space.

A well staged space will have a common thread that runs throughout the design. But don’t dwell on a single tone.  Just as a song, a well staged room has highs and lows to engage a person using the space.  Find a base color and accent with both lighter and deeper shades.  Accent a room with accessories that round out the theme.   Most items in a room should be a “middle” tone with a few special accents.  Too many and there they get lost to an overstimulated mind.  Use multiple fabric textures between the soft seating, the floor coverings and accent pillows.

The most challenging area can be closet space:

Notice the space is light and airy and is mostly white hangers and is not bulging with clothing. The majority of clothing was packed up to give a bigger feel to the room.

You will notice all white (Sherwin Williams Extra White) on trim, doors, and cabinets. The walls in most spaces is (Sherwin Williams Versatile Grey) and the Bathroom Vanity and Kitchen Island (Benjamin Moore Kendall Charcoal but paint from Sherwin Williams) the closet ceiling is a foam green to create a more spacious feel. Paint is an easy fix to stage a house and can add a large value to the end price. More pictures to come on the before and after.

Special thanks to @nthdegreecompanies specifically Neal, Jeff, Alan, and Derek.

Check out their website Nth Degree Realty

Home Staging Checklist


  • Evaluate each room from a buyer’s perspective
  • Talk to a local real estate agent and professional home stager for customized advice
  • Consider a home inspection to identify any issues that should be fixed prior to selling

Declutter and Depersonalize

  • Go through every room and get rid of anything you no longer want or need
  • When in doubt, choose neutral colors: white bath towels, white bedding
  • Depersonalize the décor 
  • Remove wallpaper, popcorn ceilings, and outdated carpet
  • Less visual clutter – bookshelves a few select items 
  • Pack away family photos,  certifications, toys, kids art, and pet supplies
  • Remove bulky furniture
  • Keep blinds open during a showing; natural light always
  • Clean the house thoroughly


  • Clean the interior of the cabinets, appliances, and entire kitchen
  • Evaluate the appliances; consider updating (stainless always)
  • Clean everything off the countertops to show as much counter space as possible; select 1 or 2 decorative items such as jar or vase with flowers
  • Put away small appliances
  • Remove the trash cans out of the kitchen to the garage for showings 
  • Neaten up the pantry; box up extras and keep a minimalist feel 
  • If cabinets are outdated, consider a fresh coat of paint and new hardware
  • Remove duplicate bowls, dishes, pots and pans; keep one set of attractive matching dishes. Do the same with cookware, flatware, and glassware
  • Decluttering shows how much space you have
  • Under the kitchen sink, remove everything that is not needed 
  • Upgrade light fixtures

Living Room

  • Remove bulky and unnecessary furniture; take the rest to the garage or basement
  • Create an open feel 
  • Minimal decor on bookshelves and on the coffee table
  • Outdated furniture or bold colors furniture – use a neutral slipcover 
  • Pack up video games, movies, magazines
  • Add colorful accent pillows or blankets to chairs, sofa: go for symmetry
  • Add lighting – lamps and chandeliers 
  • If you have one, clean out the fireplace and stage it (such as with a stack of wood or tools)
  • Slideshow of beautiful images on your tv like a screensaver during showings


  • Gender neutral all bedrooms
  • Depersonalize – no pictures, floral things 
  • Surfaces should be clear – maybe a flower 
  • Put away jewelry and other valuables in a safe place
  • Declutter and organize your closet (more on that later)
  • Create spacious feel to all bedrooms- remove bulky furniture


  • Clean and sanitize – polish everything
  • Make necessary repairs like re-caulking around the tub and sink
  • Polish everything
  • Remove outdated elements like unappealing tile and flooring
  • Declutter the countertop and cabinets and organize the latter
  • All white towels – think spa experience! New bath mat, white shower curtain
  • Remove everything off toilet, sinks, all personal items – medicine, toothbrushes should be out of sight
  • Remove stains and rust; consider regrouting and scrubbing.


  1. Tackle one closet at a time. 
  2. One season of clothes only
  3. Same hangers (preferably white) same direction
  4. PACK away for future. Put in garage, basement, or in storage.
  5. Thoroughly clean the closet.
  6. Paint it white.

Other Spaces

  • Address any awkward spaces and stage them to make them more appealing 
  • Declutter your home office, store any personal documents, and clear space
  • Declutter and organize the garage
  • Declutter! Consider it pre-packing for your move. Box up clothes, books, anything not used- consider placing in the garage or a storage unit. 
  • Get rid of all personalization items and posters. 
  • Keep closets, basements, and attics as empty as possible to maximize the appearance of storage space
  • Swap dim lights for high-wattage bulbs.
  • Check doors and drawers and make sure they are clean and open; hardware is clean and replace if needed
  • Hardwood- consider sanding down and restaining
  • Hire a professional cleaning company to deep clean prior to pictures

Curb Appeal and Backyard

  • Powerwash the outside of the house; driveway, front porch, sidewalk, gutters
  • Make sure mailbox is nice, labeled
  • Make any necessary repairs to the exterior of the home
  • Add a fresh coat of paint to the front door and garage doors especially if the colors are unconventional and make sure any light fixtures are clean and updated
  • Consider a fresh coat of paint to any bright garage doors or front doors – black or white should be considered
  • Front porch should be clean and have a new welcome mat
  • Grass should be watered, cut, fertilized, bushes and shrubs neat – call a landscaping company if you need help
  • Make sure bugs, insects, spider areas are swept clean
  • Hide recycle bins and trash cans
  • Organize outside wood piles and twigs.
  • Create a nice outdoor living space; consider the outdoor living space as a second living room

Extra Touches

  • Hide any pet items: bowls, beds, and toys
  • Keep the house smelling fresh and clean
  • Switch out art for neutral and appropriate



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