1. You and your partner have been together for a couple of years when they forget your birthday. You wait for them to acknowledge it but by the next morning, they still haven’t said a word. Would you end the relationship?
2. On the morning of your wedding, your partner admits to having an affair after confronted. Wedding is paid for, guests are arriving. Would you end the relationship?
3. You find out your partner has been messaging another person. The messages are flirty and you’re not happy with them at all, but as far as you’re aware, your partner hasn’t met up with the person they’re texting. Would you end the relationship?
4. After dating for a couple of months, you make plans for your partner to meet your best friend. Afterwards, your friend pulls you to one side and explains that they don’t like your partner at all. Would you end the relationship?
5. You and your partner sit down to have a serious conversation about where your relationship is going and you realize they don’t want to get married. Would you end the relationship?
6. You and your partner have been watching a Netflix series together. You find out that they watched the season finale without you. Would you end the relationship?
7. Your partner talks about their ex and references the ex. They’ve assured you they’re 100% over the relationship and would never get back with them, but the topic keeps coming up. Would you end the relationship?
8. Your partner is very flirty. You know it’s their personality, and have no reason to think they’re cheating on you, but their flirting makes you feel uncomfortable. Would you end the relationship?
9. You find out from somebody else that your partner kissed another person. You thought you were both happy and there seems to be no reason for it. Would you end the relationship?
10. You find out that your partner has an ongoing texting relationship with someone who has been in love with them for years. They have met up without telling you for dinner and lunch and message throughout the day, almost everyday. You have expressed being uncomfortable. Would you end the relationship?
11. You have been dating your partner for over 18 months and they are not sure about your future and where they see it going. Would you end the relationship?
12. Your partner took a job without discussing it with you in a city 45 minutes away. Would you end the relationship?
Thanks for your input!
Xoxo,
Heidi
